Comments on: Love – The Laughter and Tears That Goes With It http://whisperings.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/love-the-laughter-and-tears-that-goes-with-it/ Just a rustle amidst the thunder of the world Thu, 04 Jun 2009 14:24:26 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: ~ lo$t $oul ~ http://whisperings.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/love-the-laughter-and-tears-that-goes-with-it/#comment-983 ~ lo$t $oul ~ Wed, 26 Mar 2008 07:36:37 +0000 http://whisperings.wordpress.com/?p=239#comment-983 hmmm i hope for the better of everyone, i do grow out of this. She is not my first love in my teens, its after too many things in life.. :-) i see u havent read the one latest two posted :-) hmmm i hope for the better of everyone, i do grow out of this. She is not my first love in my teens, its after too many things in life.. :-)

i see u havent read the one latest two posted :-)

]]> By: mia http://whisperings.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/love-the-laughter-and-tears-that-goes-with-it/#comment-973 mia Sun, 23 Mar 2008 06:07:48 +0000 http://whisperings.wordpress.com/?p=239#comment-973 No Jerry, Darwin is not my daughter I have seen her eye in her profile pic :) javajones I think love and desire goes hand in hand. But then there is desire alone and when very young it is desire and a whole lot of hormones that dictates our so called ‘love’ True love is unconditional that can create very strong bonds in a couple I agree but I also believe even such strong feelings sometimes are not able to weather the storms to withstand in the long run. Jeez, reading my own words make me wonder if I am a cynic or becoming one. Perhaps I have seen too many failed relationships (not necessarily divorced but living together for the sake of the children or whatever) to think any different. Still, I believe love is wonderful when current and happening :) LS, That also reminds me, keep in mind the age old saying of “if you love someone, set them free” and be happy for them in whatever they choose to do in life even though it may not involve you, which is hard but very true and valid. No Jerry, Darwin is not my daughter I have seen her eye in her profile pic :)

javajones
I think love and desire goes hand in hand. But then there is desire alone and when very young it is desire and a whole lot of hormones that dictates our so called ‘love’
True love is unconditional that can create very strong bonds in a couple I agree but I also believe even such strong feelings sometimes are not able to weather the storms to withstand in the long run.

Jeez, reading my own words make me wonder if I am a cynic or becoming one. Perhaps I have seen too many failed relationships (not necessarily divorced but living together for the sake of the children or whatever) to think any different.
Still, I believe love is wonderful when current and happening :)

LS,
That also reminds me, keep in mind the age old saying of “if you love someone, set them free” and be happy for them in whatever they choose to do in life even though it may not involve you, which is hard but very true and valid.

]]> By: javajones http://whisperings.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/love-the-laughter-and-tears-that-goes-with-it/#comment-972 javajones Sun, 23 Mar 2008 01:49:23 +0000 http://whisperings.wordpress.com/?p=239#comment-972 Lots of folk confuse 'love' with 'desire'. True 'love' is unconditional, whilst 'desire', on the other hand, is what leads to the negative aspects you mention. At least that's how I see it Lots of folk confuse ‘love’ with ‘desire’. True ‘love’ is unconditional, whilst ‘desire’, on the other hand, is what leads to the negative aspects you mention.

At least that’s how I see it

]]> By: Jerry http://whisperings.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/love-the-laughter-and-tears-that-goes-with-it/#comment-971 Jerry Sat, 22 Mar 2008 15:13:46 +0000 http://whisperings.wordpress.com/?p=239#comment-971 Hell no! Btw,darwin might turn out to be your daughter ;) Anyway, all that stuff is still beyond me. All i know has been gleaned off books. And no, i don't read soppy romance novels ;) Hell no! Btw,darwin might turn out to be your daughter ;) Anyway, all that stuff is still beyond me. All i know has been gleaned off books. And no, i don’t read soppy romance novels ;)

]]> By: mia http://whisperings.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/love-the-laughter-and-tears-that-goes-with-it/#comment-970 mia Sat, 22 Mar 2008 08:55:51 +0000 http://whisperings.wordpress.com/?p=239#comment-970 …..and at 18 I bet you have met most of them, Jerry? :P Darwin, Somehow even before you say something I expect the answer you would give and would have been surprised if it was anything else and your replies always bring a smile to my face LD, You are welcome. I am glad the post made someone feel good Nishadha, I am glad for you too. There is always hope, Nishadha, always :) …..and at 18 I bet you have met most of them, Jerry? :P

Darwin,
Somehow even before you say something I expect the answer you would give and would have been surprised if it was anything else and your replies always bring a smile to my face

LD,
You are welcome. I am glad the post made someone feel good

Nishadha,
I am glad for you too. There is always hope, Nishadha, always :)

]]> By: Nishadha http://whisperings.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/love-the-laughter-and-tears-that-goes-with-it/#comment-969 Nishadha Sat, 22 Mar 2008 03:45:52 +0000 http://whisperings.wordpress.com/?p=239#comment-969 Lets just say you've given me hope :) Lets just say you’ve given me hope :)

]]> By: Lady Divine http://whisperings.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/love-the-laughter-and-tears-that-goes-with-it/#comment-966 Lady Divine Fri, 21 Mar 2008 16:07:42 +0000 http://whisperings.wordpress.com/?p=239#comment-966 wow!!! that was a LOVELY post Mia.. let me first thank you for this....as every word hit me hard...and it made me feel so good...:) Thanks again and again.. *hugs* wow!!! that was a LOVELY post Mia.. let me first thank you for this….as every word hit me hard…and it made me feel so good…:)

Thanks again and again.. *hugs*

]]> By: Darwin http://whisperings.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/love-the-laughter-and-tears-that-goes-with-it/#comment-965 Darwin Fri, 21 Mar 2008 13:01:18 +0000 http://whisperings.wordpress.com/?p=239#comment-965 I feel rather left out as I don't think I've ever cried over a 'lost love'...! I feel rather left out as I don’t think I’ve ever cried over a ‘lost love’…!

]]> By: Jerry http://whisperings.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/love-the-laughter-and-tears-that-goes-with-it/#comment-964 Jerry Fri, 21 Mar 2008 12:29:19 +0000 http://whisperings.wordpress.com/?p=239#comment-964 That special somemany exist. That special somemany exist.

]]> By: mia http://whisperings.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/love-the-laughter-and-tears-that-goes-with-it/#comment-960 mia Fri, 21 Mar 2008 10:15:52 +0000 http://whisperings.wordpress.com/?p=239#comment-960 Dili, :) he he A post from you sounds great! LS, OK I tried. :P "a promise is a promise" This alone shows you are still v. v. v young :) Wait till you are 35 or so you'll look back and laugh at this as puppy love. Yes there can be special someONE with many if that makes any sense. The person that was special in teenage years will not the be as special in late twenties or thirties. We constantly evolve and so do our emotional needs.So whoever was special in a particular time period will not be so special in another period if we didn't tie the noose oops knot and had to grow with them. Dili,
:)
he he
A post from you sounds great!

LS,
OK I tried. :P
“a promise is a promise” This alone shows you are still v. v. v young :) Wait till you are 35 or so you’ll look back and laugh at this as puppy love.
Yes there can be special someONE with many if that makes any sense. The person that was special in teenage years will not the be as special in late twenties or thirties. We constantly evolve and so do our emotional needs.So whoever was special in a particular time period will not be so special in another period if we didn’t tie the noose oops knot and had to grow with them.

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